Love....Sacrifice or Compromise?
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends.
- The Holy Bible.
So what do you think about love? Sacrifice or Compromise?
To explain this you need to understand that thin line which separates these two. If you ask me then I'll say Love can never be a Compromise.
Love brings out the person in us who shows us our true self. We never make sacrifices thinking "Why should I sacrifice for that person?"
This is be the reaction of a person not in love. In each and every word of his, its all about I Me Myself.
But when you hear people in love you'll always see that its not about an individual. Its never Me, never Myself.
Sacrificing little things can never harm us. Especially doing it for the one we love the most. Doing it might be difficult but its all worth while when we see the love and care radiated on our beloved's face (And lets not forget that cute little smile and the glow in their eyes)
It can be a small thing that you have done but its impact is intense! We never think we are sacrificing because we just do it unknowingly. It just happens.
But why can love not be a compromise? The word itself says it, Compromise!
To give you an easy example, its more like two people had a hell of a fight and came to a decision saying you keep out of my way and me yours.
Love is never that way. Its not a BUSINESS DEAL between two persons saying "you do this and I do this". Making Love a compromise can shatter your relationship into such tiny pieces that you'll waste your whole live trying to join them.
This is be the reaction of a person not in love. In each and every word of his, its all about I Me Myself.
But when you hear people in love you'll always see that its not about an individual. Its never Me, never Myself.
Sacrificing little things can never harm us. Especially doing it for the one we love the most. Doing it might be difficult but its all worth while when we see the love and care radiated on our beloved's face (And lets not forget that cute little smile and the glow in their eyes)
It can be a small thing that you have done but its impact is intense! We never think we are sacrificing because we just do it unknowingly. It just happens.
But why can love not be a compromise? The word itself says it, Compromise!
To give you an easy example, its more like two people had a hell of a fight and came to a decision saying you keep out of my way and me yours.
Love is never that way. Its not a BUSINESS DEAL between two persons saying "you do this and I do this". Making Love a compromise can shatter your relationship into such tiny pieces that you'll waste your whole live trying to join them.
We never really know how crazy we are until and unless we have fallen in love
- Sammy..
So what do you think? let me know..
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